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How can sudden changes in sleep patterns reveal exposure to frightening or inappropriate content? 

Parenting Perspective 

A child’s sleep is often one of the first areas of their life to be affected when they are unsettled by something they have encountered online. Exposure to frightening videos, inappropriate images, or distressing conversations can lead to restlessness, nightmares, or secretive late-night device use. While occasional poor sleep is a normal part of life, sudden and persistent disruptions can be a signal that something they have seen online is disturbing their peace of mind

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Difficulty Falling Asleep 

If your child suddenly begins to struggle with falling asleep, it may be because their mind is replaying something unsettling they have seen. Frightening or overly stimulating content can leave a child feeling anxious, especially when the house is quiet and they are alone with their thoughts. 

Nightmares or Restlessness 

A noticeable increase in bad dreams, tossing and turning, or waking up in distress can be a sign of internalised fear or guilt stemming from something they have been exposed to online. This is the body’s way of processing disturbing imagery or information. 

Staying Up Late With Devices 

Children who have seen something that has disturbed them may try to stay up later than usual. This could be because they are secretly revisiting the content or, conversely, trying to ‘distract’ themselves from their anxious thoughts with more content. This cycle can worsen fatigue and anxiety

Fatigue and Mood Changes During the Day 

One of the clearest signs is a change in their daytime behaviour. If your child is consistently tired, more irritable than usual, or has difficulty focusing at school, it can be a sign that their disrupted sleep is rooted in a deeper emotional disturbance rather than just a busy schedule. 

By observing these patterns, parents can gently open a conversation, perhaps by saying: ‘I have noticed your sleep seems different lately. Is there anything you have seen online that might have made you uncomfortable?’ This creates a safe space for them to share without shame. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches that tranquillity of the heart and a restful night’s sleep are profound blessings from Allah. Anything that robs a believer of this peace should be addressed with care and wisdom. Protecting a child’s ability to sleep peacefully is a fundamental part of protecting their overall well-being. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Furqaan (25), Verses 47: 

And it is He (Allah Almighty) Who has designated for you the night as a cover (for respite), and sleep for your rejuvenation; and designated the day for re-energising (the Earth with automated light energy). 

This verse reminds us that the night and the state of sleep are blessings designed by Allah for our calmness and renewal, not for anxiety and disturbance. 

It is recorded in Jami Tirmidhi, Hadith 3401, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘When one of you goes to bed, let him brush off his bed with the edge of his garment and say: “In Your name, my Lord, I lie down, and in Your name I rise. If You take my soul, have mercy on it, and if You return my soul, protect it as You protect Your righteous servants”‘ 

This teaching shows that our sleep should be approached as a conscious act of placing our trust in Allah, seeking His protection from all forms of harm through remembrance. 

By linking the importance of restful sleep to both emotional well-being and spiritual practice, parents can help their children to understand that protecting their hearts and eyes from harmful content is what ultimately restores their peace. Over time, they can learn that sleep is not just rest for the body, but is also a means of finding tranquillity for the soul, a blessing that is best safeguarded by making wise choices online. 

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