How can parents create a family movie night tradition that aligns with Islamic values and still excites teens? 

Parenting Perspective 

Creating a family movie night that a teenager genuinely looks forward to is about collaboration and connection, not control. With the right approach, it can become a cherished ritual that reinforces both family bonds and Islamic values. 

Involve Your Teen in the Selection Process 

Give your teen a sense of ownership by inviting them to help choose the movies. You can create a shared list of potential films that are both entertaining and appropriate, and let them have the final say from that list. This collaborative approach makes them feel respected and invested in the evening. 

Set Clear but Flexible Guidelines 

Have an open conversation about why certain content is off-limits in your home. Instead of just listing prohibitions, frame the boundaries positively: ‘Let us find films that are exciting but also inspire us with themes of courage, loyalty, and kindness’. Teens are more receptive to rules that feel reasoned and value-driven, rather than arbitrary. 

Turn it Into a Full Experience 

Elevate movie night from a simple screening to a special event. Make it a ritual by preparing favourite snacks together, dimming the lights, and getting comfortable with blankets and cushions. Afterwards, you can make it interactive by discussing the film, asking questions like, ‘What was your favourite part?’ This focus on connection makes the night more memorable. 

Mix Entertainment with Meaningful Content 

Keep the selection varied and exciting. Alternate between light-hearted comedies, action-packed adventures, and inspiring documentaries or stories that subtly teach valuable life lessons. This variety ensures that the movie night feels like genuine entertainment, not just another educational activity. 

By making the process inclusive and fun, you can create a tradition that your teen will value, strengthening your family bond in a wholesome, enjoyable way. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam encourages wholesome activities that strengthen family ties and nurture good character. These shared moments are not just for entertainment; they are an opportunity to cultivate gratitude and love. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Luqman (31), Verse 14: 

‘And We (Allah Almighty) have decreed upon mankind in regard to his parents; his mother carried him (in pregnancy exposing her to) weakness upon weakness; and his dependent nourishment (from her) for two years…’ 

This verse underscores the sacredness of family bonds. Creating positive, shared experiences like a family movie night is a practical way to honour and nurture these God-given connections, fulfilling our duty of care for one another. 

The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ taught that excellence of character begins at home. 

It is recorded in Mishkaat Al Masaabih, 3252, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘The best of you are those who are best to their families, and I am the best among you to my family.‘ 

This beautiful hadith reminds us that spending joyful, quality time with our families is a direct imitation of the Prophet’s Sunnah and a mark of being among the “best” of believers. It elevates a simple movie night into a virtuous act of love and kindness.