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How do I introduce the idea of “digital fatigue” in a way they understand? 

Parenting Perspective 

The concept of ‘digital fatigue’ can be abstract for a child. The key is to connect it to physical feelings and experiences they already understand, helping them to recognise their own need for balance. 

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Use Real-Life Comparisons 

Children understand new ideas best when they are linked to something familiar. You could say, ‘Do you remember how your legs feel tired after you have been running for a long time? Your brain and your eyes can get tired too when they have been looking at a screen.’ This comparison makes mental fatigue feel real

Point Out Subtle Signs 

Gently help them to notice the physical signs in their own body. You could say, ‘I notice you are rubbing your eyes a lot; that might be a sign your eyes need a rest from the screen.’ This helps them to connect their own body’s cues to the idea of having had enough. 

Keep the Tone Positive 

Instead of making it sound like a lecture on the dangers of technology, frame the breaks in a positive light. You could say, ‘Let’s give our brains a rest now so we will have more energy for our game later.’ This helps them to see rest as a helpful tool, not a punishment. 

When they understand the concept through their own experience, they are more likely to embrace the need for breaks. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam teaches us to seek balance and to care for both our bodies and our minds, recognising that overuse in any activity can eventually lead to harm. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Baqarah (2), Verse 286: 

‘Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…’ 

This reminds us that our own bodies and minds have limits, and we must respect these limits in our daily lives to maintain our well-being. 

It is recorded in Sahih Bukhari, Hadith 5199, that the holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Your body has a right over you’ 

This teaches us that caring for our physical and mental health, including getting adequate rest from stimulating activities, is part of fulfilling the trust (amanah) that Allah has given us. 

By explaining “digital fatigue” in simple, relatable terms, you not only help your child understand why balance is important but also show them that preserving one’s health is a form of responsibility encouraged in Islam. 

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