What should I watch for if I worry about autism traits? 

Parenting Perspective 

Early Signs: Social Interaction and Routines 

It is completely understandable to feel concerned if you notice your child behaving in ways that seem different from other children. Autism is a spectrum, which means the signs can look very different from one child to another. Some early signs to look out for include finding it hard to make eye contact, not always responding when you call their name or being very focused on certain objects or routines. Many autistic children find it difficult to cope with change and may become upset by even small disruptions to what they expect. 

Repetitive Behaviours and Sensory Responses 

You might also notice repetitive behaviours, such as flapping their hands, spinning objects or lining up toys in the same way each time. Some children have unusual responses to things they see, hear, touch or smell. For example, they might cover their ears at normal sounds, avoid certain textures or constantly seek out strong sensory experiences. Delayed speech or repeating phrases without context can also be signs to pay attention to. 

Keeping a Record and Seeking Support 

Keep in mind that some children show only a few of these traits yet can still benefit greatly from extra understanding and support. It helps to keep a calm and simple record of what you notice and when it happens. Share this with your GP, health visitor or a specialist if you feel these behaviours are affecting your child’s daily life or how they connect with others. Early awareness and gentle strategies can make a big difference in helping your child feel safe and understood. Remember, seeking help does not mean putting a label on your child. It means giving them and your family the right tools to find your way forward together. 

Spiritual Insight 

In Islam, we are reminded that every child is crafted with care and wisdom by Allah Almighty. Some children see and feel the world differently, and this difference is neither a flaw nor a burden, but a sign of Allah Almighty’s creative design. Parenting a child who may be on the autism spectrum can be challenging, yet it can also be an immense source of closeness to Allah Almighty through patience and sincere effort. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Mulk (67), Verse 14: 

‘Does He who created not know, while He is the Subtle, the Acquainted? ‘

This Ayah reminds us that Allah Almighty knows your child’s hidden strengths, struggles, and every silent need. 

It is recorded in Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith 3671, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

‘Be kind to children and perfect in your upbringing of them. ‘

This Hadith Shareef inspires us to nurture every child with tenderness and understanding, meeting them where they are, not where we expect them to be. If you see signs of autism, respond with calmness and hope. Make sincere Dua for wisdom to guide your child with love. Build simple, predictable routines and celebrate their unique way of seeing the world. You do not walk this path alone, Allah Almighty sees every tear you shed and every smile you share, rewarding your steadfastness with closeness to Him. In this way, your child’s differences become a bridge to deeper love, patience and Barakah in your life.