When should I be concerned about my child’s speech delay? 

Parenting Perspective 

Understanding Variations in Speech Development 

It is natural to worry if your child does not seem to be talking as much as other children their age. Speech development can vary widely.¹ Some children start chatting early while others stay quiet observers, taking everything in until they feel ready to speak more. Still, there are signs that might mean it is worth asking for extra support. 

Signs of a Potential Delay 

If your child is not babbling by 12 months, not saying single words by 18 months or not putting two words together by around age two, this may suggest a delay. Other signs to look for include trouble understanding simple instructions, poor eye contact or frequent frustration when trying to communicate. Sometimes hearing problems can affect speech too, so it is sensible to have your child’s hearing checked if you have any concerns.² 

The Importance of Patience and Natural Interaction 

Try to be patient and remember that pushing your child to speak usually does not help. Instead, focus on talking naturally throughout the day, describing what you are doing, and reading stories together. Children learn language best through warm, everyday interaction. 

Seeking Early Support 

It can help to keep a simple note of the words your child can say, how they respond to you and what seems to encourage them. Early support, like seeing a speech and language therapist, can make a real difference.³ Trust your instincts and do not feel that asking for help means you are failing. It shows that you care deeply about giving your child every chance to find their own voice. 

Spiritual Insight 

Speech is one of the most beautiful gifts Allah Almighty has given us, yet every child’s journey in learning to express themselves is unique. Islam teaches us that we are not burdened beyond our capacity, and that every challenge, including a speech delay, can strengthen our faith when faced with trust and hope. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Taha (20), Verse 27: 

And untie the knot from my tongue. 

This was the Dua of Prophet Musa (AS) asking Allah Almighty for clarity of speech, reminding us that even the greatest prophets turned to Allah Almighty for help with their words. 

It is recorded in Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith 79, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated: 

The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, though there is good in both. 

This Hadith Shareef reminds us that each child has their own strengths, speech may come slowly, but their worth in the eyes of Allah Almighty never diminishes. Make sincere Dua for your child’s tongue to be eased but also trust in Allah Almighty’s perfect timing. Keep talking to your child with gentleness, read the noble Quran aloud, and believe that your effort is not wasted. A delayed word today may blossom into a lifetime of meaningful speech, InshaAllah. Every step you take in patience and trust is a form of worship, bringing you closer to your child and to your Creator’s mercy.