How can I protect my child from harmful websites and distractions? 

Parenting Perspective 

Taking Practical Steps 

In the modern world of computers, one single app can lead your child to unsafe or unsuitable information. Protecting them begins not with fear, but with clear, gentle boundaries. Start with practical steps like setting up parental controls on every device. This helps block access to harmful sites and content before it reaches your child. 

Keeping Screens in Shared Spaces and Teaching Safety 

Keep screens in family areas rather than bedrooms so you can quietly keep an eye on what they are watching. Talk to your child about basic internet safety in simple terms. Explain why they should never click on strange links and should always tell you if they see anything that feels worrying or wrong. 

Limiting Distractions and Offering a Routine 

Try to limit the number of apps open at once during lessons to reduce the temptation to slip away into games or videos. If you notice they are easily distracted, offer a routine instead. You might say, ‘We will finish this lesson, then we can watch something together if it is suitable.’ 

Encouraging Honesty 

Encourage your child to be honest with you if they make a mistake or find something by accident. Over time, these small practices teach your child that you are not just there to protect them but to guide them. This sense of trust helps them feel safe, knowing you are there to help them make wise choices. 

Spiritual Insight 

Islam reminds us that our eyes, ears, and hearts are gifts to be protected and used wisely. 

Allah Almighty states in the noble Quran at Surah Al Isra (17), Verse 36: 

‘And do not pursue that of which you have no knowledge. Indeed, the hearing, the sight and the heart, about all those [one] will be questioned. ‘

This Ayah shows us that every click, every website visited, is part of our trust. 

It is recorded in Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1829a, that holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: 

‘Every one of you is a shepherd and every one of you is responsible for his flock. ‘

As parents, we carry the responsibility of helping our children understand that the internet is not always a safe place to wander freely. Teach them to make a simple Dua before going online: O Allah, protect me from anything that harms my heart. Be open when discussing mistakes, even adults can get distracted or click something they regret. Use these moments to remind your child that Allah Almighty loves those who turn back to Him quickly and ask for guidance. In time, your child will learn that being safe online is part of their Iman, a daily practice of honesty, caution, and Tawakkul in Allah Almighty’s help to guard their hearts, InshaAllah.